User talk:AerobicFox
Bienvenidos a mi página de discusión. Se puede hablar conmigo en español si se necesita ó si se prefiere. My contribution historyI saw this comment from you after the recent Off2riorob discussion closed. I'm disappointed in Rob for making his misleading attack on me, and I'm saddened that other editors are taking it at face value. I also note that you misremembered Rob's comment in order to even further reduce the number of edits that I had made. Rob's use of cherry-picked edit counts to attempt to squelch participation by editors with whom he disagrees is distasteful, counterproductive, and corrosive to the collegial atmosphere we're trying to foster here. If he can't discuss a point of policy on its merits, then he shouldn't fall back to attacking editors. The only way that Rob could make me look like a non-contributor was to filter out all of my other Wikipedia contributions. To refresh your memory, here's the original attack. He argues that because I've made relatively few mainspace edits in recent months, I'm somehow out of touch with the community, and that I shouldn't be allowed to block the implicitly more important editors who have racked up more mainspace edits. He didn't even have the class to offer his insult where I could respond to it, as he slipped his post into an already-closed discussion. So, why did he choose the six-month cutoff? Because otherwise he'd have to acknowledge that I've been contributing to the project for seven years, with more than sixteen thousand edits behind me—including more than 4400 to article space. Why did he just look at article contributions? Because otherwise he'd have to acknowledge that in the preceding six months I had made roughly four hundred edits, not just thirty. A major part of my contributions of late have been to the Wikipedia Reference Desks. While edits to the Ref Desk don't represent direct changes to the encyclopedia, they help the project in a number of ways.
I think it's worth mentioning that the conduct for which Bugs was blocked occurred at the Reference Desk, and it seems particularly unfair that Rob felt it appropriate to gloss over my specific experience (administrative and editorial) in that part of Wikipedia. Beyond my work at the Reference Desk, I regularly participate in discussions (both on article talk pages and on policy pages) that guide and determine how Wikipedia is built. To take one recent example, just a single day before Rob's jab at me, I had been involved in a conversation on Jimbo's talk page on how to balance our goals as a project with requests from biography subjects to suppress information in their articles. My input (and subsequent comments) required substantial thought and research. While I am reluctant to resort to argumentum ad Jimbonem, I think that Jimbo's statement that "... TenOfAllTrades has produced a classic, thoughtful, and elegant discussion of the issue." supports at least a basic claim to competence and understanding of the purposes of the project. I was willing to let sleeping dogs lie, and had intended not to participate in the recent AN/I thread. I chose to comment here on your talk page because until now I didn't realize that there were other editors taking Rob's attacks seriously, and using those misleading statements as a basis for their opinions of other editors. I'm even more concerned that you were willing to repeat and even further misstate Rob's deceptive claims. I hope that you'll do more research before you condemn another editor in the future. TenOfAllTrades(talk) 14:51, 24 October 2011 (UTC)
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Delivered by MessageDeliveryBot on behalf of Wiki Media Foundation at 10:47, 25 October 2011 (UTC). GARI noticed that you placed Shigeru Miyamoto is up for GAR and its been placed there for two weeks while you said you were gonna close it 7 days ago. So I'm just letting you know about the review in case you forgot about it. GamerPro64 18:37, 30 October 2011 (UTC)
ThanksHi AerobicFox - a belated note of thanks for your encouraging comment on my talkpage at a time when I was in need of such - I am grateful - best wishes to you. - Off2riorob (talk) 19:20, 5 November 2011 (UTC)
"This is why we can't have nice things"Could you please explain your decision to revert the 17:12, 8 November 2011 edit on H.A.A.R.P. page? — Preceding unsigned comment added by 93.37.203.204 (talk)
Your comment on civility at ANII should have read your comment about civility related to the Pregnancy image issue at ANI. It summed up much of what I was thinking and repeated below. I've been getting the impression that "civility" based requests for blocks and bans have been increasing, which I think is a dangerous trend, and not part of traditional policy. There's a lot of people grabbing onto an adjective and running with it as evidence of incivility. If I read your comment right, I think you agree with me that that is an unhelpful trend. Either way, I hope what you wrote is noticed by others because it sums up the issue nicely. Shadowjams (talk) 23:58, 28 November 2011 (UTC)
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DSM and ICD-10Hi AerobicFox, You stated at the RSN that "The specific application of the theory to indicate that infanitilism is pedophilia turned inward is directly contradicted by the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders and the International Statistical Classification of Diseases and Related Health Problems which consider the two conditions to be unrelated." I've read the DSM's discussion of the paraphilias (DSM-IV-TR, pages 568-73 are the specific ranges I have photocopies of) and browsed the ICD-10's latest version in section F65, disorders of sexual preference ([1]). In neither case can I find paraphilic infantilism mentioned. The DSM mentions infantilism once on page 572 as a behaviour seen in sexual masochists ([2], the actual quote is "The individual may have a desire to be treated as a helpless infant and clothed in diapers ("infantilism")"). The ICD-10 doesn't seem to discuss paraphilic infantilism at all (but does discuss infantilism a lot, in reference to the meaning of "phyisiological infantilism", the failure to mature or appearance of physically infantile traits in adults). As indicated in the paraphilic infantilism page, pedophilia and PI are not considered the same thing, and I have attempted to edit to make this distinction more clear [3], as well as rewording the "autoerotic pedophilia" to remove the loaded term while keeping the intent [4]. I believe it is important to make a distinction between attraction to children (pedophilia) and attraction to the idea of being a child (paraphilic infantilism) and if the distinction is not clear enough, it should be sharpened. Paraphilic infantilists initiate sexual contact with other adults, not children. I think that Blanchard, Freund, Cantor and Barbaree make these distinctions, and in fact make them quite clearly, touching on the central issue of a parter versus the self. I have compared it to the difference between a homosexual (attracted to a member of the same sex) and transvestic fetishism (attracted to the idea of being the opposite sex). My basic questions are - what parts of the DSM and ICD-10 do you see as applying to or discussing paraphilic infantilism? Where do they make the distinction that pedophilia is not paraphilic infantilism? I don't see the DSM or ICD-10 as contradicting Blanchard's theory simply because the DSM and ICD-10 don't discuss paraphilic infantilism at all, let alone making a distinction or contradicting the theory. If I am missing something, I would like to correct it, and having my mistakes pointed out makes me a better editor and the page improves. I had considered the DSM-PI issue settled and would only like to re-consider it if myself and the other editors involved made an error or missed a point. Thanks, WLU (t) (c) Wikipedia's rules:simple/complex 14:41, 7 December 2011 (UTC)
As the one who started the section on how infantilism is not pedophilia[7], I'll concede that it can be improved. To this end, I have provided sources. For example, WLU should have mentioned that Brame, the source he claims credit for above, wasn't found by him, but by me[8][9]. I'm also the one who told him the Dr. Brame was not a 'he.'[10]. I feel that the infantilism article should present the mainstream view that infantilism is not related to pedophilia. However, in three places, a fringe view is being presented. This fringe view ambiguously associates infantilism and pedophilia. "They [Freund and Blanchard] interpreted infantilism as an erotic target location error for persons whose erotic target is children, that is infantilism as an autoerotic form of pedophilia." (Cantor, Blanchard, et al, 2008/2009). Per this text in this source, infantilism is not a form of masochism, not an unspecified paraphilia, but a form of pedophilia. Using this source to support some differing point would be to misrepresent it. As for Freund and Blanchard, the first sentence reads: "A clinical series of male paedophiles who dressed or fantasised themselves as children suggests that certain paraphilias represent developmental errors in locating erotic targets in the environment and that proneness to such errors is a paraphilic dimension in its own right, apart from the specific nature of the erotic target." The article never uses the term 'infantilism,' leaving us to guess that it what they meant by "masochistic gynaephilies." Since this is the closest thing in that article to the definition in the DSM (under masochism) this isn't an unreasonable guess, but still a guess. This guess would be an example of WP:SYNTH. For completeness, I'll cover Dickey too. This was a response to a response to Pate's "Adult Baby Syndrome". Pate's patient didn't have the distress or impairment needed for a diagnosis of paraphilia. Dickey presents "autohebepedophilic dysphoria", "autoinfantophilia", and "autopedophilia." These all have pedophilia or infantophilia (pedophilic desire for infants) in the neologisms. He mentions Blanchard's 1989 autogynephilia paper, but not F&B's erotic target errors paper. There is no source connecting any of the neologisms to paraphilic infantilism, and this source is not connected to the above two, except by the workplace of their authors. Rewording the article text based on these sources to not be offensive is not a viable option. Text must represent the sources if sources are cited. However, it isn't given that we have to cite these - in fact, since they are all from the same facility, we should not. I really don't care whether we count this as one or three fringe theories, they are fringe and without independent sources. They should go, and there is only one editor currently warring to keep them - WLU. BitterGrey (talk) 05:42, 9 December 2011 (UTC) banner errorThank you for reporting it. It's fixed now. Philippe Beaudette, Wikimedia Foundation (talk) 09:04, 9 December 2011 (UTC) Waffling?Could I ask you for your thoughts on WLU's recent change of heart (above)? Previously, he had edit warred for months to keep "infantilism is an autoerotic form of paedophilia" and to cite Blanchard & Blanchard to support it([11][12][13][14][15][16]...). Coming around 180 degrees, he now accuses me of misrepresenting the sources[17] by representing them the same way he has done so many times before. (Except that I never represented them as non-fringe.) Please note that the pedophilia section text regarding Fruend and Blanchard, which WLU emphasizes so heavily Dec 7th above, was commented out of the article until Dec 6th[18] because it contradicts CB&B's reading of F&B.BitterGrey (talk) 16:24, 11 December 2011 (UTC) Summit Series requestHi there, I've been trying to get some feedback on a proposed article expansion I've prepared about a non-profit with which I have a potential COI, so far without luck. I've just posted a note to WikiProject Organizations' Talk page, which I recognize is semi-active at best. If you'd be interested in looking at it and sharing your thoughts about whether it's ready to go live, I'd appreciate it. Cheers, WWB Too (talk) 16:42, 16 December 2011 (UTC)
Pro Smash player?So do you play pro Smash? I'm going to be at a pretty big tournament next month.--SexyKick 05:40, 25 December 2011 (UTC)
Help with a newbie?Hiya! I'm writing partially on behalf of another editor that's trying to add a page for their organization. They're sort of on the cusp of really passing notability guidelines and I was hoping that as a member of the wiki-project for organizations, that you might have places you could look for reliable sources that I might have missed. The user is User talk:Caribbeanchild and the organization is called "Children of the Caribbean Foundation". I've found a few articles about various celebrities that have endorsed the project, but haven't been able to find that one big news article that would really push it into the notability sphere. Any chance you might be able to help any?Tokyogirl79 (talk) 11:43, 27 December 2011 (UTC)tokyogirl79
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FYIJust FYI, I quoted you at AN/3RR. BitterGrey (talk) 15:42, 2 April 2012 (UTC)
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