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Nancy Abigail Baker Heche (/heɪtʃ/; néePrickett, born March 10, 1937)[4] is an American activist, author, and counselor. In 2006, she published a memoir entitled The Truth Comes Out. Heche is the mother of the late actress Anne Heche and writer and literary scholar Susan Bergman.
Early life and family
Heche is the daughter of Marietta Susan (Tukey) and Richard Carleton Prickett.[4] As a child, she attended a Methodist church and was raised in Indiana.[5]
In 2006, Heche published a memoir entitled The Truth Comes Out.
Heche adheres to the Bible's "mandate that Christians must love, gays and lesbians included". She has said, "We are supposed to be known by our love. So to categorize it or think it's going to be different for someone who is living homosexually is a misconception. We just show love."[7] Heche has been criticized by other Christian activists, both those who believe that a person's sexuality is determined by God and those who believe that homosexuality is a sin.[7]
In 2010, Heche and Joe Dallas published a book entitled The Complete Christian Guide to Understanding Homosexuality: A Biblical and Compassionate Response to Same-Sex Attraction.
Personal life
Heche met the man she would marry, Donald Joe Heche, in high school. Her husband co-founded a schismatic fundamentalistBaptist church. They lived with their children on an isolated compound in the Amish country near Burton, Ohio from the early 1960s until 1971.[11][12] In 1983, Donald Heche died of AIDS.[5] Upon learning of the diagnosis, Heche became aware that her husband had been a closetedgay man.[7] Three months following the death of her husband, Heche's 18-year-old son Nathan was killed in a car crash.[7]
Anne Heche
Heche is the mother of the late actress Anne Heche.
In 1997, Anne Heche publicly announced her relationship with comedian Ellen DeGeneres. Nancy Heche later commented that Anne "became sort of the poster child for coming out and bringing the whole homosexual issue into the public eye and even glamorizing and humorizing it, laughing about it, making it just another kind of love relationship".[13] Heche said her daughter's sexuality was "like a betrayal of an unspoken vow: We will never have anything to do with homosexuals."[5] After reading the Old Testament book of Isaiah, Heche became convinced that sexual orientation change was possible for her daughter, and likened what she believed would be their eventual reconciliation to the parable of the Prodigal Son.[14]
Nancy Heche became estranged from Anne Heche after the latter confronted her about her father's alleged sexual abuse.[15] In her 2001 memoir Call Me Crazy, Anne Heche wrote that when she contracted genital herpes as an infant, her mother insisted that it was a diaper rash and refused to take her to the doctor.[16] Heche vehemently denied her daughter's allegations.[17][18]
Anne Heche died in August 2022 following an automobile accident.[19]
Published works
Heche, Nancy (2006). The Truth Comes Out. Revell. ISBN9781441225221.
^Bill O'Reilly (September 8, 2006). "Back of Book Segment: Anne Heche's mom speaks out". The O'Reilly Factor. Retrieved May 4, 2012. I don't think I've ever seen a person with as much heartbreak as you've had. Your husband led a secret double life as a bisexual, and he died of AIDS in 1983. You had one child die from a birth defect, another daughter die of brain cancer. Your only son was killed in a car accident, and then you had a conflict with your daughter, Anne, about the lesbian relationship.
^"Guests". Engaging your World. Retrieved May 4, 2012.
^Bergman, Susan (1994). Anonymity (1st ed.). Farrar, Straus and Giroux. ISBN0374254079. Retrieved August 29, 2022. p. 66. "After Cynthia died, we moved out to the country where the Amish people lived, and three years later, in April of 1965, Nathan was born. The pastor of the small breakaway church and my father had agreed to purchase forty acres together, on which they would build their families’ houses away from the lure of the world. They had located a site on top of a hill on which there was a clearing in the middle of a woodland parcel."
^Heche 2006, p. 65, 68: "Don and I bought 40 wooded acres of land outside the city and, along with five other families, built homes in a compound-like setting to keep us out of the world and to keep the world out of us. I didn’t read a newspaper or watch television or listen to the radio for nearly 10 years. Don’t ask me about Top 40 songs or news events in the late 1960s or early 1970s. I never heard them." "It was the summer of 1971. Don sold our unpainted, uncarpeted, unheated home that we had never finished building and maneuvered our family out of the Amish community of Burton, Ohio, into the sophisticated neighborhood of Cleveland Heights.".
