He engaged in mercantile pursuits in New York City and became a member of the dry goods house of Conkling & Churchill.[7] He was elected as a Republican to the New York State Assembly, serving in 1854, 1859, and 1860.[1]
After his defeat in Congress, he was an unsuccessful Republican candidate for mayor of New York City in 1868.[1] Following this loss, he changed parties, becoming first a Liberal Republican and then a Democrat, speaking highly of Horace Greeley and Gen. Winfield Scott Hancock.[7] He refused the Democratic nomination for Congress in his old district in 1874.[7]
He was one of the organizers of the West Side Savings Bank of New York City and served as its president for many years; subsequently he became president of the Aetna Fire Insurance Co., of Hartford, Connecticut, and served until its dissolution in 1880. He authored numerous pamphlets on political, commercial, and scientific subjects.[1]
Personal life
Conkling was married to Eleanora Lorillard Ronalds (1825–1879), the daughter of Maria Dorothea Lorillard (1790–1848) and Thomas Alexander Ronalds (1788–1835), a New York merchant. Eleanora was the granddaughter of Pierre Lorillard II, the head of the Lorillard Tobacco Company, and a cousin of Catharine Lorillard Wolfe.[10] Frederick and Eleanora were the parents of three children:[7]
Conkling died at his residence in New York City, 27 East 10th Street, on September 18, 1891, after a protracted illness extending over two years.[7] He was buried in Green-Wood Cemetery in Brooklyn.[1]
Descendants
Through his son Alfred, he was the grandfather of Gwendolyn Lorillard Conkling, Vivien Eastman H. Conkling, and Muriel Lorillard Ronalds Conkling (1898–1971), who married Baron Louis van Reigersberg Versluys (1883–1957) of Holland in 1922.[16] Within one month of her wedding, her mother had married William H. Holden, and her 79-year-old grandmother had married 77 year old General Stillman F. Kneeland.[16]