Crimes of violence against women and children has received national and international attention. But the level of violence against women and children showed an increasing trend from year to year. One of the districts whose citizens suffered domestic violence in Jember is Wuluhan districts, precisely in the Village Dukuhdempok. People in the village Dukuhdempok generally highly educated junior aged 30-50 years and did not work. The development of adult domestic violence a criminal offense study shows the majority of cases of domestic violence by husbands against wives is a recurring pattern. Based on the interview with a question and answer questionnaires with residents of districts Wuluhan village dukuhdempok their acts of violence in rumatangga but they are afraid to tell or complain to the village chief or local authorities because it is a disgrace that can create harmony kelurga be disturbed, they tend to be quiet and passive on the grounds shame.